Why this report matters now

Pregnancy, birth and early parenthood should be safe and supported. Yet too many parents don’t experience this at a time when care matters most.

With a National Maternity and Neonatal Investigation underway in England, and a Maternity and Neonatal Assurance Assessment taking place in Wales, this is a critical moment to listen to women and parents. Listening to a diversity of experiences is central to understanding what is working - and what is not.

This report provides vital evidence to inform change.

Who we heard from

NCT’s report is based on a UK-wide survey of:

  • 2,000 new and expectant parents
  • 500 women and people who were pregnant at the time of the survey
  • Parents from a wide range of backgrounds, identities, incomes and family structures

Together, their experiences paint a clear - and often challenging - picture of navigating pregnancy, birth and early parenthood in the UK today.

Giving birth in the UK

Most women and people who have given birth reported a positive experience (72%). But people also shared concerns about safety, lack of choice and informed decision-making.  

Some pregnant women and new parents felt they lacked access to personalised care and genuine choice.  

One in five women and people who had given birth:

  • Didn’t agree they were given the information they needed by medical professionals (20%)
  • Didn’t agree they were able to make informed decisions during their birth (22%)

Becoming a new parent

While most parents said they enjoyed the early days with their new baby, many felt under enormous strain during the postnatal period.  

  • Almost nine in ten (87%) felt overwhelmed at least some of the time
  • More than one in five (23%) said they didn’t have a positive feeding experience.

Persistent inequalities

The report also highlights stark and persistent inequalities in maternity and postnatal care.

Parents from diverse ethnic and cultural backgrounds – including Black, Asian and Mix-Heritage women and parents – were significantly more likely to worry about safety and about how they would be treated by healthcare professionals.

Financial insecurity further compounded these experiences. Nearly half of parents (48%) said they were struggling more financially after having a baby, with those on lower incomes or not in full time work facing the greatest challenges.

LGBTQIA+ parents also reported poorer experiences.

Nearly 9 out of 10

new parents felt overwhelmed at least some of the time

Nearly 6 out of 10

worried about whether the place they wanted their baby to be born was safe

Over 6 out of 10

experienced loneliness or isolation at least some of the time after their baby was born

1 out of 5

didn’t have a positive experience of feeding their baby

Building a maternity system that works for every parent

NCT’s vision is for a maternity, neonatal and postnatal care system which is safe, personalised, equitable, and centred on the experiences of pregnant women and parents.

Based on what parents told us, NCT sets out ten clear recommendations for the NHS and Government, including:

  • Train, invest and recruit to ensure safe staffing levels.  
  • Guarantee genuine choice in place of birth and care options.
  • Enshrine informed consent and promote birth rights as standard practice.
  • Guarantee a postnatal check for every woman or birthing person.  
  • Deliver accessible infant feeding support, 365 days a year.

Download the full report

Share your story

Your real experiences, shared through our channels, raises awareness of the issues parents face, and can make a meaningful difference for other families.

You can submit a written testimonial or choose to speak with a member of our team. If you want to share your story with us, please email stories@nct.org.uk.

If you’re currently pregnant or have recently had a baby, NCT is by your side. Our website is packed with free, evidence-based information about pregnancy, birth and early life with a baby, and events in your community.