We discuss when to give your baby a bath, ways you can wash your little one and tips to help keep them safe at bath time.
You won't need to bath your baby in the early days because you will probably be giving them a top and tail wash. But when you do start to bath your newborn baby, it can be a lovely experience although it may feel stressful at first. Some babies take to baths well and others don’t seem to like them.
"Your little one may really enjoy their first bath. But don’t worry if they don’t like it straight away."
Most babies grow to enjoy bath time as they get more familiar with the experience.
You might find it helpful to watch this video from the NHS about how to bath your baby.
Safety tips for bath time
It’s important to keep safety in mind at bath time. Babies and young children should never be left unattended in a bath, not even for a second (NHS, 2021). Here are some bath time tips:
- Get everything ready ahead of your baby’s bath, so you have everything you need to hand.
- Make sure you always use the hot and cold taps at the same time when you run the bath.
- Check the bath water temperature first before putting your baby in. The standard way to check is to put your elbow in the water because your hand can cope with high temperatures. The water should feel neither warmer or colder than your elbow.
- Don’t be distracted away by another child, a phone call or doorbell. What feels like a couple of seconds can turn into a minute or two. Leaving your little one even for a few moments could be enough time for them to seriously hurt themselves or drown.
- If you forget anything – ask your partner or another family member to grab it for you. Or take your baby with you to get what you need. (NHS, 2021)
"Never leave your baby alone in the bath, not even for a second (NHS, 2021)."
When should I give my baby a bath?
- There is no set age when you should give your baby a bath. Babies get cold quickly, and that’s more risky for them than being a bit dirty.
- If you’re anxious about bathing your little one, you don’t need to put them into a bath until you feel confident about it.
- You may prefer to just wash your little one’s face and bottom to begin with. This is sometimes called ‘topping and tailing’.
- If you’re feeling confident about bathing your baby you can do so when you wish.
- Choose a bath time when your little one is content and awake. It’s better not to bathe your baby straight after a feed or when they’re hungry or tired.
- Some babies love bath time to begin with, others don’t. You may need to try different ways of bathing your baby and at different times of day, to find out what suits you both. Choose a time of day when your baby is happy and awake (NHS, 2021).
How often can I give my baby a bath?
- Your little one won’t need a bath every day but if they enjoy it, there’s no reason why you can’t.
- If you’d prefer to top and tail your newborn, you can do this every day or every few days or as needed.
- Every baby is different – you will soon find out what works best for you and your little one.
How do I wash my baby?
- If you want to top and tail your newborn, you can do this by washing them using cotton wool or a soft cloth and bowls of warm water. Warm tap water is probably fine but if you want to be particularly careful, use cooled boiled water to reduce the chance of infections in the first week or until your baby's cord drops off.
- You can wash your newborn in a small baby bath.
- If you’d prefer to share a bath with your little one, see below for more details.
- It can help to have an extra pair of hands at bath time, if available, until you feel confident about bathing your baby on your own.
- You don’t need any special products to bathe your baby; only mild, non-perfumed soap can be used where needed. Plain water is best for your baby’s skin during in the first month (NHS, 2021).
Can I take a bath with my baby?
- Babies love to lie on a parent’s chest in the bath.
- Having a bath with your baby can help you both relax and encourage breastfeeding.
Remember, your baby might have a wee or poo while in the bath with you!
Baths are slippery, so it’s not a good idea to get into or out of a bath carrying your baby. It's better to bath with your baby when there's someone else to hand them to you and take them from you. This could be your partner, your parent or a friend.
Tips for co-bathing
- Get yourself settled and relaxed in the bath. Check the temperature is not too hot with your elbow.
- Ask your partner, parent or friend to pass you your baby and lay them on your legs facing you.
- Now you can lower as much of them into the water as you and they want by straightening your legs.
- You might want to chat or sing to your baby to help soothe them.
- Remember that your baby will get cold more quickly than you.
- When you want to get out, make sure you pass your baby back to your helper before getting out yourself.
As your little one gets more used to bath time and you become more confident handling them, bathing with your baby becomes lots more fun.
This page was last reviewed in November 2021.
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NHS Choices Birth to Five section.
Public Health England (PHE) provides guidelines about bathing children under two safely.
NHS. (2021) Washing and bathing your baby. Available at: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/baby/caring-for-a-newborn/washing-and-bat… [Accessed 7th November 2021].